Tuesday, August 31, 2010
Filed for divorce in Feb...
...and he still hasn't paid child support.
When I kicked him out for being drunk almost 2 yrs ago - he quit his job - to start his own company. He was ordered to pay support based on the amount of money he USED to make. Well - he took me to court to say "My business went belly-up". Only his lawyer said it. He never showed up to court that day. He is living in our house with his new girlfriend. Actually - she is his highschool girlfriend.
I went over one night - her truck was parked in the driveway so I parked behind her and went in. The front door was locked by the storm door - so I went around to the back door, which was unlocked. They were in the bedroom. I walked in and she walked into my master bath - with the light off.
I took that opportunity to look thru her purse which was open on the floor while jr begged me to leave. As if I hadn't seen her yet! Duh!!!
So...I walked into the bathroom, flipped on the light and said "What are you doing in the dark...IN MY SHIRT?!!"
To be honest, her being in my shirt got a bigger reaction from me than her living there. Which of course she denied. She also denied having sex with him at all - this is while she crawled to the middle of my king sized bed and sat cross legged. UH - HELLO! You are sitting on MY bed as if you own it??? but I should believe you aren't sleeping with my STBFS?
Then - get this - while I was walking out, I was in the kitchen and I asked Dallas for the griddle and do you know what he said to me??? He told me he loved me and wanted me to come home.
Remarkable.
Anyway, Dallas was supposed to pay $600 a month child support and $1010 a month spousal support. (This is where "cheaper to keep her" came to be)
His lawyer - his HIGH PRICE lawyer went to court and said that Dallas had no income - and the magistrate lowered his payment to ZERO spousal support and only $150 a month for 3 kids. That doesn't even feed 3 kids in a month.
When I kicked him out for being drunk almost 2 yrs ago - he quit his job - to start his own company. He was ordered to pay support based on the amount of money he USED to make. Well - he took me to court to say "My business went belly-up". Only his lawyer said it. He never showed up to court that day. He is living in our house with his new girlfriend. Actually - she is his highschool girlfriend.
I went over one night - her truck was parked in the driveway so I parked behind her and went in. The front door was locked by the storm door - so I went around to the back door, which was unlocked. They were in the bedroom. I walked in and she walked into my master bath - with the light off.
I took that opportunity to look thru her purse which was open on the floor while jr begged me to leave. As if I hadn't seen her yet! Duh!!!
So...I walked into the bathroom, flipped on the light and said "What are you doing in the dark...IN MY SHIRT?!!"
To be honest, her being in my shirt got a bigger reaction from me than her living there. Which of course she denied. She also denied having sex with him at all - this is while she crawled to the middle of my king sized bed and sat cross legged. UH - HELLO! You are sitting on MY bed as if you own it??? but I should believe you aren't sleeping with my STBFS?
Then - get this - while I was walking out, I was in the kitchen and I asked Dallas for the griddle and do you know what he said to me??? He told me he loved me and wanted me to come home.
Remarkable.
Anyway, Dallas was supposed to pay $600 a month child support and $1010 a month spousal support. (This is where "cheaper to keep her" came to be)
His lawyer - his HIGH PRICE lawyer went to court and said that Dallas had no income - and the magistrate lowered his payment to ZERO spousal support and only $150 a month for 3 kids. That doesn't even feed 3 kids in a month.
Thursday, August 5, 2010
Harder Than I Thought
Writing this blog is harder than I thought. I thought it would be cathartic and therapeutic for me. However, I am so discouraged by the dirty tricks my husband and his family are pulling that I haven't had the heart.
Let me catch you up to speed.
My STBFS has visitation with the kids each Wed. night from 6-9. Last week, he kept them overnight. I kept telling him to bring them home - because starting at 9:25 he called about 5 times. First to ask if they could stay. I said NO. Then to tell me that HIS lawyer told him he could keep them if he wanted. And that he wanted. He kept them until 8 pm the next night.
Last night as he was picking them up he told me flat out that he was keeping them overnight. But I didn't want to be the one going against the court order so I let them go...
Let me catch you up to speed.
My STBFS has visitation with the kids each Wed. night from 6-9. Last week, he kept them overnight. I kept telling him to bring them home - because starting at 9:25 he called about 5 times. First to ask if they could stay. I said NO. Then to tell me that HIS lawyer told him he could keep them if he wanted. And that he wanted. He kept them until 8 pm the next night.
Last night as he was picking them up he told me flat out that he was keeping them overnight. But I didn't want to be the one going against the court order so I let them go...
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