Father's Day

Ok - first off, it was my every hope that Dallas would take the kids this weekend and have a good bonding time with them. Then his dad filed a lawsuit against me and I called my lawyers office and they told me that since they (my soon to be former spouse and his family) are starting in with playing dirty - that I should be extra cautious. My inlaws have properties in other states and while Dallas and I both have equal custody - they could hightail it out of town and I won't have much of any recourse.

So...this is the 2nd Father's Day in a row that I've denied Dallas access to the kids.

But - I had the kids call him first thing this morning. He asked to talk to me - so I got on the phone. I forget what made me bring it up but I informed him that I had to buy Dallas III a new pair of jeans yesterday. He told me that I should have had him buy them when he bought groceries from Meijer (a super store like Walmart) when he spent $300. Well - 1. the groceries came to $242.xx not $300 - so lets keep our facts straight and 2. He used a foodstamp GC that brought his out of pocket total down to $101.50.

So, I got mad. I got incensed. I told him that I wanted that foodstamp card, that it was wrong for him to have it since he applied for it while we've not lived together...but he used us as his feeding his family of 5. I told him that if I don't get it I will go downtown and apply for my own foodstamp card - and when they tell me that I am already in their system I will explain in detail how Dallas has frauded their system and only once has our children benefited from it in all the months he has had the card.

Instead - he buys groceries for himself and his parents - who are millionaires. Nice, huh?

Writing it out here I'm getting a little ticked off again. What he has done is so wrong. My parents have fed us week after week - while he has the government feeding him and his wealthy parents. It absolutely makes me sick.