Tuesday, July 6, 2010
He wants custody of the kids...
...but the visitation schedule is already too much for him and he hasn't even had his first visit.
My husband is challenging me as a fit mom (I have taught them at home since birth) based on...well, nothing. Anyway, I have won temporary sole custody of our three kids. Once I got the notice I called and tried to arrange for his first visit. He is supposed to get them every Wed. night from 6-9. I offered to let him have them overnight.
Today he called and said he just now got the schedule in the mail. (Not my fault he doesn't check his mailbox) And that he couldn't possibly take them this Wed. (tomorrow) could he have them tonight? Uh, no. I need more notice than a few hours, thank you. How about Thurs? Sorry, our son has a Constitution class that has already been paid for - he goes every Thurs night for 12 weeks.
And kids schedules have priority over all else.
So...I'll have them ready tomorrow night - just in case he shows up for them - if they aren't ready when he is supposed to have them - I could be held in contempt of court. I do not contempt the court... :)
What kills me - is he wants custody -he complains he never gets to see them...and when the opportunity shows itself, he can't arrange it.
My husband is challenging me as a fit mom (I have taught them at home since birth) based on...well, nothing. Anyway, I have won temporary sole custody of our three kids. Once I got the notice I called and tried to arrange for his first visit. He is supposed to get them every Wed. night from 6-9. I offered to let him have them overnight.
Today he called and said he just now got the schedule in the mail. (Not my fault he doesn't check his mailbox) And that he couldn't possibly take them this Wed. (tomorrow) could he have them tonight? Uh, no. I need more notice than a few hours, thank you. How about Thurs? Sorry, our son has a Constitution class that has already been paid for - he goes every Thurs night for 12 weeks.
And kids schedules have priority over all else.
So...I'll have them ready tomorrow night - just in case he shows up for them - if they aren't ready when he is supposed to have them - I could be held in contempt of court. I do not contempt the court... :)
What kills me - is he wants custody -he complains he never gets to see them...and when the opportunity shows itself, he can't arrange it.
Monday, July 5, 2010
...
The next day - after he called the cops on me for no reason, I brought my mom with me to the house to get more of my stuff - and more of the kids things. He wasn't home at first. When he came home - he was normal again, just like he was on Monday. He was normal before he even knew my mom was there helping me. Which makes me further believe that he must have been high on Tuesday to call the cops like he did.
Anyway, my mom gave her a piece of her mind. And if you knew my mom you would know that she did it respectfully and almost gently...all the while I kept packing up my things. Dallas even helped me carry things out to the car with my Mom watching.
Wednesday, I got the court order - I have temporary custody of the kids - and Dallas gets to have visitation rights. Which means every Wed from 6-9 the kids are his - and every other weekend. I told him we can be flexible. Then - get this, he asked if he and I get a date night together.
NO.
Why not?
Are you kidding? You called the cops on me for no reason.
Lets put the past behind us.
You are counter suing me for divorce - even if I dropped it we are still getting divorced.
I only did that because my lawyer told me to...
*click*
Anyway, my mom gave her a piece of her mind. And if you knew my mom you would know that she did it respectfully and almost gently...all the while I kept packing up my things. Dallas even helped me carry things out to the car with my Mom watching.
Wednesday, I got the court order - I have temporary custody of the kids - and Dallas gets to have visitation rights. Which means every Wed from 6-9 the kids are his - and every other weekend. I told him we can be flexible. Then - get this, he asked if he and I get a date night together.
NO.
Why not?
Are you kidding? You called the cops on me for no reason.
Lets put the past behind us.
You are counter suing me for divorce - even if I dropped it we are still getting divorced.
I only did that because my lawyer told me to...
*click*
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