He wants custody of the kids...

...but the visitation schedule is already too much for him and he hasn't even had his first visit.

My husband is challenging me as a fit mom (I have taught them at home since birth) based on...well, nothing. Anyway, I have won temporary sole custody of our three kids. Once I got the notice I called and tried to arrange for his first visit. He is supposed to get them every Wed. night from 6-9. I offered to let him have them overnight.

Today he called and said he just now got the schedule in the mail. (Not my fault he doesn't check his mailbox) And that he couldn't possibly take them this Wed. (tomorrow) could he have them tonight? Uh, no. I need more notice than a few hours, thank you. How about Thurs? Sorry, our son has a Constitution class that has already been paid for - he goes every Thurs night for 12 weeks.

And kids schedules have priority over all else.

So...I'll have them ready tomorrow night - just in case he shows up for them - if they aren't ready when he is supposed to have them - I could be held in contempt of court. I do not contempt the court... :)

What kills me - is he wants custody -he complains he never gets to see them...and when the opportunity shows itself, he can't arrange it.